FEAR!!

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Fear affects our perception and decision- making

Do you have any fears..?So do I! Somebody somewhere described fear as an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat. I will absolutely won’t squabble with them. Fear has made you who you are. Fear has crushed all your dreams…all your goals…all that you’ve been thinking of. Fear has also grasped the destiny you had. It has grasped it so snugly that it has made you to fear more than before! Fear has piled on fear and sometimes has made us fear the fear!
You’ve silently fallen in the blue ocean with that ‘skirt’. She is too charming such that “you doubt if she ever visits the toilet” But where do you begin? “How do I approach her? But she may go red such that I’m scared! Maybe I employ the aid of her best pal? No no, she also seems to be in the same bus as HER. But I keep dreaming of her! So what do I do? She comes from a well-off locale while I come from those bushes, raised by the power of porridge. I sleep on goat’s skin…she sleeps on queen-size pillows. Oh my! I was just forgetting her dad is a retired military!! I’d rather look for someone my caliber we match other than running away from her dad’s bullets!!” LAD! SHE COULD HAVE RESPONDED POSITIVELY BUT ‘FEAR ‘LET YOU DOWN!!!
You’ve just got some bulk of cash. You are in a dilemma. “Oh! I just got some cash. I’ve been dreaming of making that dream a reality…opening that business and start earning some cash. ‘They’ will now know who I ‘am…all over the villages” But there comes your nemesis…it’s there to curtail your dreams and you’ve got nothing to do to recoil from it. All that trek you’ve been through such that you’re now a step into the hub of your dreams. FEAR! “I may open it and then it may come to haunt me. It can be a complete disappointment… But I don’t have any skills to handle this venture I’m dreaming of. Ok, let me say I’ve opened it and it’s been a hit. How will I manage it? It may come to plunge in the near future!” Now you see. You see how FEAR is taunting what could otherwise have been a success tale. You’ve time-honored fear as part of your living and it won’t stop playing its fraction!
Fear has been the sheer and core factor behind our collapse. We feel like we have no prospect of making it to ensue. He could have healed from such a mere accident but FEAR took away his darling life. Fear has affected our decision making, the way we act and the way we react. Fear has influenced our perception of things in life. Fear of rejection made you not to approach that ‘skirt’. Fear has shattered you mental behavior. You feel insecure because of fear. You’ve got the correct measures from your mind, but you fear putting them into practice. Fear has been your downfall…plummeting your future like an avalanche… Making you lose the fruits you were destined to make a bite into!!
It’s time you lash out the ego from you. Dash past it and let it make no gulley on your destiny. Pretend you know nothing of it. Be daring and have the mood of a warrior at all times. You’ve got a nice destiny but unless you cast out you fears you will never see it!! You have your own fears, so do I! I’m in the process, so should you!!
By Symon Tokaly.

Is This The Life I’m Meant To Live?

Maybe I'm running insane.
Maybe I’m running insane.

Sometimes I feel like the life I’m living is a complete breakdown nonetheless there comes a moment or two I cherish being extant. At times I come into asking myself ridiculous questions. “What If my mother did not give birth to me? Could I have been born somewhere else or could there be no me? When precisely I’m I going to bid farewell to this planet and if that day comes, will I be given even just a second to observe the response of the mourners? Who is going to ‘blubber’ the most and who is going to weep the least? How will my spouse/girlfriend retort? Will she attempt to jump into my grave to start the voyage with me? Seems like I’m running insane, aren’t I?” All these inane questions will for a time ring in my skull. I will even giggle loud at myself at sometime.
“One day I’m going to be that gentleman I’ve been dreaming all these days. Will I be Bill Gates? Obama? No! I want to be that hotel boss I’ve been nostalgic about all day long! But still I can make those punch lines, why can’t I make it in front of that mass? No, I feel like I can make it in front of the cameras and do the news briefing. Yeah! They call it broadcasting! I want the masses to see my face and heed my accent day after day! Should I carry on with my freelancing and blogging? This online kind of obsession? I tried it and I can see a destiny out of it! But I need adequate time out too! So what do I do? What do I opt to? Perhaps not a hint! But I have to make to all those dreams a kind of integrity. So where do I start?” All these will also sphere in my skull. I will even giggle loud at myself at sometime.
So is this life doing justice to me? Predicaments all day long. Dilemma 24, 7,365 so that I feel like I need a bit of psychoanalysis. I’m the only piece they are looking up on. I’m the only piece they have their eyes on. Some look upon me for role modeling but do I make the grade? I’m I underrating myself? This is the hub of my living after such a hike. Nemesis, Isn’t it? Hey guys, poke into this and tell me something!

Controversy??

Hey guys help me out!!According to my understanding,a look-alike is a person who closely resembles another person in their looks.I’m currently facing such a hard time being treated to a look-alike with a certain Nigerian artiste called Davido.Frankly I’ve been knowing less about this artiste but not unless people started commenting about my resemblance with this man did I kept myself busy to exactly browse this artiste.There is something I hate,..being given a new name I don’t like & which I’m not used to.Mind you I’m not exactly resembling this man!Keep a close look at the close ups below and give me your views!Really is there any resemblance?Let me know before I tell my “branders” what to do.

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A time for appreciation!

They say,you give appreciation to whoever touched your life most.I take this chance to do so.When there is a time I smile most It’s as a result of seeing the photos of these generous beings and imagining where my life would be right now without them;where my goals would have gone without them.I will always not get exhausted to tell them how they have jerked back my goals which were almost crushing to the ground!They deserve my gratitudes.Thank you Mama,your great husband,& the lovely kind-hearted Kennedys!Thank you Mr.Samson.Your mentoring brings what you aim.
You are always in my heart and always will I smile because of you!
May THE ALMIGHTY reward you back in abundance!Amen.
Heartly appreciation from:
Symon.
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